From Friend To lover
Mention online dating in Asia a couple of years ago and people may give you a blank or bewildered expression. However, things have changed. Asian online dating services are on the rise. With Asians becoming more open and liberal, many Asian online dating service sites have sprung up.
Naturally people do sign up however, sometimes it's tough to carry on the interaction further and take it to a much more intimate level. Most people get disheartened and feel that these Asian online dating service sites are just scams when that occurs. But, what they fail to realize is that the problem normally lies within themselves!
When it comes to online dating first impressions are deadly. When you first sign up for an Asian online dating service site, do not expect to get results just with the snap of a finger. Your probably going to run yourself into a wall of hurt! In order to avoid that, there's a little strategy for all the single Asian men.
Well, here is a tip for Asian single men. It is time to look to the west and emulate some of their ideals. Honestly, Asians are very conservative by nature. The westerners are a lot more passionate and bold in their actions. They know exactly what they want from their women. It is this dominance that Asians lack.
Dominance puts you ahead of the game and it shows the girl that you are in charge and know exactly what you want. Common problem faced by Asian men is that they treat girls way too nice and they try to impress her on that very first date. There's a difference between being a gentleman and being a suck up. Being a gentlemen means treating a girl with respect and understanding that she is a woman and not some piece of toy. Being a suck up would mean you go all out to impress that one girl in hopes that she will start liking you just because you did those things to impress her.
Women want to be led. There's no tow ways about it. There are some women now in modern times who are independent and very focused, but deep down inside they are still little girls who want to be cared for,protected and loved by someone. Time to take up the mantle and start leading. Lead in your interactions. Take the first step. Use some initiative and always be certain of what you want. This sense of confidence is very attractive to not only Asian single women but women in general. So start cultivating this habit of leading.
Finally if you want to transition from friends to lovers, there has to be sex. OK not full blown wild animalistic sex,because there's only so much you can do on an Asian online dating service site...
Think more along the lines of sexual innuendos, tension and touch. This reflects back on the previous point of leading and knowing what you want. Now if there is no chemistry between the both of you then there is no point to try and amp up the sexual tension and innuendos because you will appear as some weirdo.
But, if there is something going on and you really do like the girl, take a risk. You might lose her if not done correctly, but you should not be having the mindset of scarcity. She is not the only girl for you. There are so many more out there. Being an Asian single man does have it perks sometimes, because you get to go on so many fantastic dates and get to know so many interesting women.
The way you speak, the tonality of your voice and your body language conveys sexuality. Be comfortable with your own sexuality and bring her into your world. Have the guts to want to put your hand over her shoulder, brush her hair away from her face and openly flirt with her.
In fact women in general and not just Asian women appreciate being called sexy. It is not a crime to tell her she's sexy. Well Asian women might be a little bit more shy, but deep down they will be beaming with joy. Imagine a girl coming up to you and she openly tells you how good looking you are. How does that feel?
To break down, it is all about being confident, leading the girl and applying some sexual tension and innuendos where necessary. Do these correctly and you will not have to worry about being an Asian single for long.
Being a person of value, Val believes in giving. Check out his blog at iDateAsia for FREE reports and articles on dating.
Mention online dating in Asia a couple of years ago and people may give you a blank or bewildered expression. However, things have changed. Asian online dating services are on the rise. With Asians becoming more open and liberal, many Asian online dating service sites have sprung up.
Naturally people do sign up however, sometimes it's tough to carry on the interaction further and take it to a much more intimate level. Most people get disheartened and feel that these Asian online dating service sites are just scams when that occurs. But, what they fail to realize is that the problem normally lies within themselves!
When it comes to online dating first impressions are deadly. When you first sign up for an Asian online dating service site, do not expect to get results just with the snap of a finger. Your probably going to run yourself into a wall of hurt! In order to avoid that, there's a little strategy for all the single Asian men.
Well, here is a tip for Asian single men. It is time to look to the west and emulate some of their ideals. Honestly, Asians are very conservative by nature. The westerners are a lot more passionate and bold in their actions. They know exactly what they want from their women. It is this dominance that Asians lack.
Dominance puts you ahead of the game and it shows the girl that you are in charge and know exactly what you want. Common problem faced by Asian men is that they treat girls way too nice and they try to impress her on that very first date. There's a difference between being a gentleman and being a suck up. Being a gentlemen means treating a girl with respect and understanding that she is a woman and not some piece of toy. Being a suck up would mean you go all out to impress that one girl in hopes that she will start liking you just because you did those things to impress her.
Women want to be led. There's no tow ways about it. There are some women now in modern times who are independent and very focused, but deep down inside they are still little girls who want to be cared for,protected and loved by someone. Time to take up the mantle and start leading. Lead in your interactions. Take the first step. Use some initiative and always be certain of what you want. This sense of confidence is very attractive to not only Asian single women but women in general. So start cultivating this habit of leading.
Finally if you want to transition from friends to lovers, there has to be sex. OK not full blown wild animalistic sex,because there's only so much you can do on an Asian online dating service site...
Think more along the lines of sexual innuendos, tension and touch. This reflects back on the previous point of leading and knowing what you want. Now if there is no chemistry between the both of you then there is no point to try and amp up the sexual tension and innuendos because you will appear as some weirdo.
But, if there is something going on and you really do like the girl, take a risk. You might lose her if not done correctly, but you should not be having the mindset of scarcity. She is not the only girl for you. There are so many more out there. Being an Asian single man does have it perks sometimes, because you get to go on so many fantastic dates and get to know so many interesting women.
The way you speak, the tonality of your voice and your body language conveys sexuality. Be comfortable with your own sexuality and bring her into your world. Have the guts to want to put your hand over her shoulder, brush her hair away from her face and openly flirt with her.
In fact women in general and not just Asian women appreciate being called sexy. It is not a crime to tell her she's sexy. Well Asian women might be a little bit more shy, but deep down they will be beaming with joy. Imagine a girl coming up to you and she openly tells you how good looking you are. How does that feel?
To break down, it is all about being confident, leading the girl and applying some sexual tension and innuendos where necessary. Do these correctly and you will not have to worry about being an Asian single for long.
Being a person of value, Val believes in giving. Check out his blog at iDateAsia for FREE reports and articles on dating.
